Are you a slave to your liking or loving tendencies? Do you overlook red flags about someone or something because you are blinded by your feelings? We all have tendencies to like and love what we do. But when we get stuck in a false truth is when we get into trouble in our lives.
Have you ever said that you like what you do but you hate your boss who is a tyrant but you stay because you like some of the work and are afraid to try something new? Or maybe you are the person whose friends can see all the warning flags about the love of your life but you overlook those warnings and respond, “but I really love him/her” and disregard the warnings?
If this sounds like the way you think, you are not alone. Many people find themselves stuck in a situation, job or a relationship for all the wrong reasons. Life is not waiting for you to find the perfect job or the perfect partner. You are the one who has to decide to start looking at things in your life objectively in order to see what is not in your best interest.
One of the best ways to do this is by hiring a life coach who can be objective and help move you in a better position. A good coach will provide you techniques to change your negative thinking into positive and productive thinking. A good coach will hold you accountable. I offer those things and more through my life coaching. If you are ready for a change, contact me for your free 30-day introductory coaching session. Let’s see if we can make a positive change in your future.